It is now day 139 of retirement and I am still finding new adventures every day. I miss my colleagues from work but I don’t really miss the work itself. It has not taken me long to adjust to the next phase of life.
In late February Roxanne took some time off work and we headed to the NASCAR races in Atlanta. We had an amazing time and it was so great to connect with people we had met in previous years. We are already looking forward to going back in 2020.
I have been absent from the Blog for a while and for that I do apologize. I can guarantee that the next several weeks will see me writing far more.
In the summer of 2013 I was diagnosed with Osteoarthritis of my right hip.. That was a real shock. I always thought it was only the elderly that had this issue, was I ever wrong. It was worn out probably from years and years of being very active. I first met my surgeon in 2014 and although I was a candidate for a replacement at that time I was not mentally ready. I learned to cope and at that time I said “it really isn’t that bad.” I would say it really wasn’t that bad and although I had pain, I could hide any limp etc. I had visits to the surgeon again in 2015, 2016, and 2017. I knew that it was getting worse, and he was surprised that my symptoms were not matching the x-rays for level of pain and discomfort. He had indicated that most people with the x-rays that I had would have already had the operation.
Jump forward to the summer of 2018 and my annual visit to the surgeon.
It had been getting harder and harder to walk and everyone noticed my limp except me. I told him I was ready. He said that I was healthy enough that he would do both at the same time. My right hip was so bad I did not realize that my left one was also joining the party.
Coming home from the Nascar races in Atlanta we changed planes in Minneapolis. For the first time ever I asked for a ride in a cart as I just could not walk anymore. That in itself was very humbling for me. The prime of my life at 57 and I could not walk through the airport. The driver of the cart told me he had just had his hip replaced and he said it was great.
This brings us to tomorrow, March 20th. I am scheduled for a bi-lateral hip replacement. Almost 6 years from the first diagnosis I am having the surgery. I have no idea what the day will bring. Many of you know that my faith and trust in God is the most important thing in my life. With that in mind I know that I should not fear, but I do have some apprehension. But I will not fear. I have come too far in life to lose faith now. I know that He will direct the hands of the surgeon and I am also trusting the Lord for a very speedy recovery. Tomorrow evening my Jewish friends celebrate Purim, I will never forget that my surgery is on the same day as that celebration.
Roxanne has been such a blessing throughout all of this. I could not have asked for a better wife. She is so amazing and so supportive. I love her so very much and I know that she will be very patient with me over the next few weeks while I recover. Roxanne is a perfect example of a Proverbs 31 woman.
So now everyone is up to date on my life. I do promise to write as much as I can while in the hospital and also recovering. Retirement has been an amazing journey the last 139 days. Tomorrow I will start the next chapter in the fantastic journey.